tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2878631690674892828.post8962146895283998160..comments2023-08-15T15:19:57.651+05:30Comments on EMBODYING EMOTIONS: For better, for worse....!!!Sarah malikhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15900352659438484102noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2878631690674892828.post-47222962152756169642012-08-29T07:18:54.266+05:302012-08-29T07:18:54.266+05:30Very well analysed post with an obvious tilt to th...Very well analysed post with an obvious tilt to the arranged side of life :)<br /><br />Very good post Sarah.. very well analysed. R-A-Jhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00054344096373478777noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2878631690674892828.post-54896746536004512952012-08-27T21:39:48.865+05:302012-08-27T21:39:48.865+05:30thnks gautam :)thnks gautam :)Sarah malikhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15900352659438484102noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2878631690674892828.post-44002808044654421882012-08-27T21:39:10.681+05:302012-08-27T21:39:10.681+05:30good to have u here. loved ur comment. i agree com...good to have u here. loved ur comment. i agree completely to wht u said, thats exactly my belief too. and thnks so much to take out time to share such a wonderful comment:DSarah malikhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15900352659438484102noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2878631690674892828.post-21420092286916106632012-08-27T21:34:35.118+05:302012-08-27T21:34:35.118+05:30see i believe that if two ppl genuinely love each ...see i believe that if two ppl genuinely love each other than love will find a way...but wen u r not sure/confused etc. thn whts wrng in letting ur parents choose for u? its very similar to selecting a career, if u r sure u want to do a particular thng thn go ahead. but if u arnt thn better strugglng n regreting d whole life...u mite as well take ur elders advice. <br />thnks for readng though...:)Sarah malikhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15900352659438484102noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2878631690674892828.post-55247961957166938832012-08-27T21:30:36.093+05:302012-08-27T21:30:36.093+05:30a big hi to u too..great to have u on d blog raksh...a big hi to u too..great to have u on d blog raksha di :))<br />i appreciate ur opinion...but like i said here in India, love and marriage are two entirely different phenomenons so the classification is but natural!Sarah malikhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15900352659438484102noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2878631690674892828.post-12374137099598836652012-08-27T21:24:56.732+05:302012-08-27T21:24:56.732+05:30yup..no one can deny that.. and thats y d image in...yup..no one can deny that.. and thats y d image in d end :DSarah malikhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15900352659438484102noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2878631690674892828.post-24243205754446342872012-08-27T21:24:17.487+05:302012-08-27T21:24:17.487+05:30definitely..like i said a very pleasant options fo...definitely..like i said a very pleasant options for all sides :) thnks for reading!Sarah malikhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15900352659438484102noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2878631690674892828.post-21135310039664695892012-08-27T07:58:21.571+05:302012-08-27T07:58:21.571+05:30nice postnice postgmhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08453224815038317503noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2878631690674892828.post-46698899549087819992012-08-26T19:54:49.802+05:302012-08-26T19:54:49.802+05:30S S,
You have nicely compared both. You may know...S S, <br /><br />You have nicely compared both. You may know someone for many years but it is only when you start living 7 X 24 that you come to know the real person. Also during period of love, both put their best foot forward as well as being blind in love do not see negative side of each. Marriage is not just union of two persons but coming together of two families also. I always advocate that let the individual who are to get married have their say. So in case of love, let the families get to know each other before taking final decision. In case of arranged one, let the boy and girl have ample opportunity to interact to see if they can accept each other. I am going to quote two of fellow bloggers :<br /><br />Success of marriage does not depend on finding the right partner but on being one.<br /><br />Marriage is like a flowerbed which needs to be tended everyday. <br /><br />Take careJackhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15896075408610203350noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2878631690674892828.post-3320532162836435152012-08-26T18:25:48.098+05:302012-08-26T18:25:48.098+05:30I loved the way you analysed and dissected everyth...I loved the way you analysed and dissected everything so wonderfully. When it comes to my opinion I feel be it arranged or love..if there is no trust and basically understanding and communication between the couple the marriage is surely gonna go downhill, in love marriage it may be earlier than compared to arranged ones.<br /><br />Blame game in arranged marriages is the only thing that's good, but don't you think its kinda weird you love someone today but then are forced to marry someone else, some years down the line you have your own kids and you impose the same on them..where are we heading with this outlook ??<br /><br />I dunno personally I would prefer love marriage but for that my partner should be really mature and ready to live upto our love and convince his parents that they really love and can't live without..if one doesn't really take the initiative it's no use..better an arrange marriage where you can at least compromise..and I like @Red Handed's comment..at the end it's all about compatibility right :)<br /><br />And the pic at the end is definitely awesome !Fatimahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09407541725369570472noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2878631690674892828.post-14048350483814035442012-08-24T10:23:00.309+05:302012-08-24T10:23:00.309+05:30Well analyzed Sarah, here after a long time:) firs...Well analyzed Sarah, here after a long time:) first of all a big fluttering Hi from the Canary:):)How have you been?<br /><br />Coming to the topic, I am of the opinion that it is criminal to classify marriages into 'love' and 'arranged', it is easier to discuss and dissect the pros and cons, the whole world will go yadayada, but each marriage is definitely more than that:)Raksha Bhathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08325913646466909469noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2878631690674892828.post-79514411631946112672012-08-23T11:54:27.549+05:302012-08-23T11:54:27.549+05:30In the end...its all about compatibility right?In the end...its all about compatibility right?Red Handedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17062645716811851771noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2878631690674892828.post-2021565944306452532012-08-21T20:06:24.438+05:302012-08-21T20:06:24.438+05:30A good post. Yes, a love-cum-arranged marriage rem...A good post. Yes, a love-cum-arranged marriage remains to be THE dream!Abhyudayahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00313405893329011612noreply@blogger.com